Miranda Xhomaqi (31) decided to leave her hometown and settle in Amsterdam five years ago. Miranda currently works in the A'DAM Tower, which is famous not only for its swings on the roof, but also for its parties. Miranda also teaches yoga in various locations throughout Amsterdam. She will share how her experience in Amsterdam has significantly impacted who she is today.
Culture shocks
'I've been in Amsterdam for five years, and there are many things that have influenced my way of life. I'm mostly referring to positive changes. Living in a global metropolis has always been a dream of mine. Amsterdam is a multicultural city known for its hospitality. The locals, or the Dutch, are generally inquisitive. Because the Dutch travel to many different places, they are tolerant about other cultures. As an example, some of my colleagues are interested in learning Albanian. I'm referring to a few simple words. However, there were a few culture shocks that I encountered when I first moved to the Netherlands. I've discovered that the people are very direct here. They are clear about what they think and are straightforward about it. My ethnicity is Albanian, but I grew up in Greece. People in Greece are not as direct as people in the Netherlands. It took some getting used to at first."
Communicating and criticism
"What I couldn't believe happened once while working. A coworker expressed her dissatisfaction with the increasing flow of expats. She even claimed that's why her children can't find a place to live. I stood there, wondering if she realised I was an expat myself. In general, Amsterdam is a welcoming city, and the majority of residents are not critical of expats. However, I try to be understanding of those who think differently. I try to speak Dutch as much as possible to prove that I am integrating. I spent some time taking Dutch language classes to hone my speaking abilities. 'My knowledge of Dutch culture has greatly increased as a result of these language lessons, but I have also been able to advance my communication abilities. For example, it has become easier for me at work when I have Dutch clients. My workplace is a tourist attraction, but it is also enjoyable for locals as well. I must admit that I find Dutch to be a difficult language'.
Future of expats
'I notice that most expats have their own tight-knit group with whom they meet on a regular basis. Also, there are numerous events in which both expats and locals get involved. I love the idea of a multicultural city like Amsterdam. You will meet people from all over the world in this city. A multicultural city brings people from various backgrounds together and allows them to live life together in one place. That has certainly made me more open and easygoing. I developed new social skills and increased my self-assurance. I've learned a lot about independence and trusting people. Also, how can I simply ask for what I want without fear of it not being granted. I've begun to believe more in myself, and this is how I can be my true self'.
'I'd like to offer some advice to new expats looking to settle in Amsterdam. Always be proud of your heritage and where you came from. Don't be afraid to show your true self."
